In this interview, WBF Intercontinental champion and policewoman Aina Abbey discusses her journey into boxing, the obstacles encountered as a civil servant, her commitment to abstinence, and other topics.
What prompted your interest in boxing?
Boxing was my father’s profession, and he encouraged me to pursue the sport. I have a strong passion for boxing because of my physical strength. Among my siblings, I am considered the strongest, which is why my father involved me in the sport.
Was your mother supportive of your decision to pursue boxing?
Every member of my family backed me up; whenever I had a fight, my parents would accompany me. Despite sustaining injuries, my parents remained undeterred because we believe that injuries are part of the journey to becoming a champion. Three years ago, during one competition, I lost a tooth.
Given the injuries you’ve experienced, have you ever considered quitting boxing?
No, because I’ve always had the support of those around me, including my manager. I’ve never contemplated giving up boxing because I have a genuine love for the sport.
What drives you?
My motivation is to attain and maintain the top position. In this sport, success requires dedication and rigorous training; there are no shortcuts, just diligent training and focus, coupled with unwavering support from my family and manager.
Have you encountered situations where men were intimidated by your profession as a boxer?
Yes, it has happened to me in the past. However, my current boyfriend, who is also a boxer, was not intimidated by my profession.
Why do female boxers often choose to date other boxers? Are non-boxer men afraid of them?
I believe this behavior is influenced by some female boxers. Some may inadvertently intimidate men, while others may display aggression when pursuing romantic relationships. However, it’s important for women to maintain a balanced approach. Men should pursue women, and female boxers should also be willing to submit to their partners or spouses, understanding their needs and preferences. Additionally, there are practical reasons why some of us prefer to date within our profession. One reason is that some men may prioritize sexual intimacy, which conflicts with our training schedules. For instance, if I have a fight scheduled for August, I refrain from sex starting at the end of February to focus on my training. Maintaining this discipline is crucial for optimal performance. Some women may struggle with this level of discipline, which can hinder their chances of becoming champions.
What are the advantages of abstaining from sex?
We each have unique physiological responses, and I can only speak from my own experience. For me, engaging in sexual activity while preparing for a fight would nullify all the training I’ve undergone. There may be female boxers with different bodily responses. I recall knowing a woman who could have sex the day before a fight and still emerge victorious, but I haven’t encountered anyone else with a similar physiological makeup as her.
You’re involved in both boxing and law enforcement, what drives your determination to excel in these traditionally male-dominated fields?
Firstly, they don’t interfere with each other. I have a genuine passion for both professions, and I’m fortunate enough to have the freedom to pursue both with dedication. Many people still mistake me for a man when they see me training or doing roadwork, so why shouldn’t I engage in activities typically associated with men? I possess strong self-discipline, which is crucial for success in these areas where discipline is paramount.
How do you manage balancing both roles?
It’s been challenging, particularly because I haven’t received much support from the police department; instead, I’ve faced mistreatment. Despite this, I remain committed to both endeavors. When I won the WBF title in the UK, becoming the first Nigerian woman to achieve such an international victory, the recognition I received from the police was minimal—I was only promoted to the rank of Corporal, while others who hadn’t accomplished what I did were promoted to Inspectors. I initially joined the police force to complement my boxing career, believing it would provide opportunities for advancement. Despite its tarnished reputation due to corruption, I still regard policing as a noble profession. Unfortunately, corruption has diminished its respect and integrity. The meager salary, which is further reduced by deductions, often drives officers to engage in corrupt practices—a regrettable situation.
What has been the most rewarding moment in your career thus far?
Boxing has brought me immense joy and numerous opportunities. My happiest moment was when I traveled to the UK for the WBF fight. Winning that title was beyond my expectations, especially considering how protective the British are of their titles. I felt truly blessed by God’s grace as I dominated my opponent from the first round to the eighth. Additionally, winning the Lion Boxing Organisation in November last year was another significant achievement, but the WBF belt holds a special place in my heart—it represents my most cherished moment as a boxer.
What would you consider the most challenging moment of your career?
I haven’t experienced anything in boxing that has saddened me; rather, it’s been aspects of my work as a police officer. While I hesitate to criticize, the unfair salary and certain issues with some of my colleagues are disheartening. For instance, I participated in the Police Games in February and won three gold medals in weightlifting since I couldn’t compete in boxing as a professional. Despite these achievements, I don’t feel adequately recognized. Although discussing these concerns could take a long time, I must acknowledge that there are positive aspects to being a policewoman. I simply hope for more support and recognition. Nevertheless, I appreciate the opportunities the police force has provided me, especially the flexibility to continue my athletic training. Unlike the Army, which restricts athlete training, the police allow their athletes more freedom. Once, an Army General invited me to join their ranks, but I declined because I needed to prioritize my training. Joining the Army would have constrained my training schedule, unlike the police force, which affords me more liberty.
Do you have any upcoming fights?
Yes, I’m scheduled for a fight in August. That’s why I mentioned abstaining from sex since February; I’m fully focused on my training.
What if you were given only three months’ notice before a fight?
That’s a rare scenario for me. Typically, I receive early notifications about my fights, allowing me ample time to prepare and gear up. I’m always prepared and ready for any situation, so I wouldn’t be starting from scratch.
What are your aspirations after retiring from boxing?
I aspire to undertake a coaching course and delve into coaching. Additionally, I’ve gained experience refereeing at amateur levels and may contemplate pursuing it professionally post-retirement from boxing.
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